Let me explain something to you women real
quick about us, men, and why we rant and yell about shit when we're
angry on facebook , twitter, BBM or in real life...
It goes like this. We,
men, unlike women, aren't well well oriented to venting out shit when it
comes to our feelings. While you girls were taught how to hone your
emotions and stuff while you were young, we boys were taught not to cry
about things. We were taught not to show
our sadness. Which leads us into finding ways how to release and vent
our feelings. For male behavior, fighting, yelling, beating up things
and ranting is acceptable. So when we grow up, this is how we release
our anger, sadness and other uncontrollable feelings.
If a guy
goes through some harsh times, we don't just sit there and cry in front
of other people. We weren't taught to do that nor is that acceptable by
other men. So we go hide alone or with other guy friends to release our
anger and sadness by means you women believe is wrong but is our only
first taught way to do so. We go out, beat up shit, rage, rant in real
life or on facebook, drink etc etc even if we know at times its wrong.
Sure, you women have your friends and we have our hommies, but the
thing is, we men don't talk about that shit. As i've mentioned before,
when we're with our hommies, we ego trip etc talking about videogames,
sports, sex and other ego boosters. Emotionally wise, its in our setting
that we don't talk to them about that shit but sometimes we do but
thats rare.
Thus the only way we vent is through that. So the
next time your boyfriend starts raging and does some stupid shit like
rant on facebook with nonstop rage posts or starts breaking or beating
up shit, loosen up and try to understand us men cause we aren't like you
women.
Okay? :]
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