Let me explain something to you women real
quick about us, men, and why we rant and yell about shit when we're
angry on facebook , twitter, BBM or in real life...
It goes like this. We,
men, unlike women, aren't well well oriented to venting out shit when it
comes to our feelings. While you girls were taught how to hone your
emotions and stuff while you were young, we boys were taught not to cry
about things. We were taught not to show
our sadness. Which leads us into finding ways how to release and vent
our feelings. For male behavior, fighting, yelling, beating up things
and ranting is acceptable. So when we grow up, this is how we release
our anger, sadness and other uncontrollable feelings.
If a guy
goes through some harsh times, we don't just sit there and cry in front
of other people. We weren't taught to do that nor is that acceptable by
other men. So we go hide alone or with other guy friends to release our
anger and sadness by means you women believe is wrong but is our only
first taught way to do so. We go out, beat up shit, rage, rant in real
life or on facebook, drink etc etc even if we know at times its wrong.
Sure, you women have your friends and we have our hommies, but the
thing is, we men don't talk about that shit. As i've mentioned before,
when we're with our hommies, we ego trip etc talking about videogames,
sports, sex and other ego boosters. Emotionally wise, its in our setting
that we don't talk to them about that shit but sometimes we do but
thats rare.
Thus the only way we vent is through that. So the
next time your boyfriend starts raging and does some stupid shit like
rant on facebook with nonstop rage posts or starts breaking or beating
up shit, loosen up and try to understand us men cause we aren't like you
women.
Okay? :]
Thursday, February 28, 2013
About Men
Men can divide between love and sex. It’s a sensitive subject but yes it’s there.
It’s a biological need. No matter how much you deny it, it’s there.
What you can do about it is control it.
Both sides control it.
The woman and the man together.
The man will probably get perverted when watching a movie. He can be perverted when walking on the street and a hot girl passes by.
But you know what? He still loves you. He’s probably thinking about you.
Women around mistaken men for cheating and thinking of others when they see him lusting or getting a bit perverted.
But no. Again, communication is essential.
There is nothing wrong with you dressing a little bit cool for your boyfriend. Talking playfully with him and not bossing him around about it.
Be fair girls.
I’m not saying you’re not enough. I’m not saying you’re bad and go talk dirty with every man and sleep with him.
But talk to him. See what triggers him. YOU should have the power to do that. And HE should be the one listening and controlling himself for you.
It’s the truth. Cheating must not be an option.
If both of you have “the talk” and you realize you can’t compromise for the other. Then okay, break up.
It’s better than being stuck in a relationship that neither of you can satisfy the other.
You must be the number one to your partner. The priority in his life.
The partner that does not treat you that way, does not deserve you.
It’s a biological need. No matter how much you deny it, it’s there.
What you can do about it is control it.
Both sides control it.
The woman and the man together.
The man will probably get perverted when watching a movie. He can be perverted when walking on the street and a hot girl passes by.
But you know what? He still loves you. He’s probably thinking about you.
Women around mistaken men for cheating and thinking of others when they see him lusting or getting a bit perverted.
But no. Again, communication is essential.
There is nothing wrong with you dressing a little bit cool for your boyfriend. Talking playfully with him and not bossing him around about it.
Be fair girls.
I’m not saying you’re not enough. I’m not saying you’re bad and go talk dirty with every man and sleep with him.
But talk to him. See what triggers him. YOU should have the power to do that. And HE should be the one listening and controlling himself for you.
It’s the truth. Cheating must not be an option.
If both of you have “the talk” and you realize you can’t compromise for the other. Then okay, break up.
It’s better than being stuck in a relationship that neither of you can satisfy the other.
You must be the number one to your partner. The priority in his life.
The partner that does not treat you that way, does not deserve you.
About Myself 2
I'm not meant to be a sad person.
If you see me in person, you will always see me as a happy person. I laugh and smile all the time, maybe too much. Even if I’m sad I’ll be laughing while crying. And if you don’t see that smile on my face, something is definitely wrong. People just don’t see me as a depressed person. I’m also very good at hiding and pretending.
If you see me in person, you will always see me as a happy person. I laugh and smile all the time, maybe too much. Even if I’m sad I’ll be laughing while crying. And if you don’t see that smile on my face, something is definitely wrong. People just don’t see me as a depressed person. I’m also very good at hiding and pretending.
Monday, February 25, 2013
About Myself
I am a SHY person.
When I meet someone new, I instantly get shy. I'm a quiet man but once you get to know me I'm the kind of man who loves to laugh. I love to smile. It’s not that I don’t want to meet new people, or talk to them, but because my personality is just overall shy. I get shy webcamming with people, talking on the phone, and meeting someone face-to-face. It’s just my own self and i can’t help it. I even get shy when I try telling someone I like them, like seriously. I can’t help being shy. It’s just who I am and everything.
When I meet someone new, I instantly get shy. I'm a quiet man but once you get to know me I'm the kind of man who loves to laugh. I love to smile. It’s not that I don’t want to meet new people, or talk to them, but because my personality is just overall shy. I get shy webcamming with people, talking on the phone, and meeting someone face-to-face. It’s just my own self and i can’t help it. I even get shy when I try telling someone I like them, like seriously. I can’t help being shy. It’s just who I am and everything.
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